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L is for Latex
Latex rubber provides sheets to lie upon and to wrap up a slave so he is helpless, bags to use to imprison him and can be used to make collars, cuffs and in strips to hold him down not able to move....
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M is for Mouth
A slave’s mouth belongs to his Mistress and She decides when he should speak or keep silent. If She wishes She can gag him or even mute him with superglue. Gagging him keeps him silent when She is...
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i trust my Mistress
Trust lies at the heart of any relationship and this is particularly true of a BDSM relationship where a Mistress is dominant and a male slave submits to Her. i have learned to trust Mistress over the...
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Rope returns
A couple of years ago Mistress and i spent time in the USA and had lots of training on the use of rope in bondage (see http://alifeinthedayofaslave.com/r-rope/). Mistress collected together ropes of...
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N is for Needles
Needles can pierce the skin and cause bleeding and bruising. The hole can introduce infection, and if the needle is not sterile it can introduce it deep under the skin. So needle play is dangerous but...
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P is for posture and posture collar
Mistress decides on the posture She wants her slave to adopt. She may want him on all fours all the time, held in place with a humbler. When he stands to receive orders She may want him to stand...
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Now i have learned to fear getting excited
For the last few years i have spent much of my life with my cock imprisoned within a steel tube chastity device. When i get excited the organ tries to swell but the steel tube prevents it and i feel...
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Mistress was indisposed yesterday
i have been very lucky recently and it has been possible to attend Mistress most weeks for several hours. This has meant lots of time doing Her cleaning and housework and being taken out in the boot of...
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Judged and Punished
Three weeks ago i was given a task to perform for Mistress and failed in my task leaving part of it undone. Mistress identified my failure and all was well but if She had not done so it could have been...
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On Wednesday i was able to attend Mistress from 10am until the evening. It was a very eventful day as part of the time had been set aside for me to be judged by the Court o’ My Mistress for a major...
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R is for Reality
Fantasies bring up so many interesting ideas of how to be a slave and what a Mistress can do with him but they are not always practical or fit with reality. Many slaves have a life outside of their...
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S is for Spanx
Spanx is the trademark of a clothing company which makes clothing with a large quantity of elastane in it. It compresses the person inside and is used for compression stockings, panties, body shaping...
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T is for Tattoo
A tattoo is for life so for a slave to get tattooed with a logo for Mistress, Her name or some mark to designate him as a slave is a big step. But it can be small and not conspicuous. It could be...
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U is for Uniform
Mistress may want Her slaves to be dressed in Her uniform. This may be a simple livery of T-shirt and slacks or something more complex. Mistress has a uniform for me with a T-shirt with embossed on it...
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B is for Brazilian Wax
Slaves need to have their body prepared as Mistress wants and this may include having all hair removed from the cock and balls and any other part of the body. Some Mistresses like to have a slave...
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C is for Chastity Contract
A slave who has been introduced to male chastity by his Mistress will move to being under a chastity contract to define his situation. This is a similar contract to that which he may have for his...
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D is for Disorientation and Darkness
When i am placed in a heavy hood i cannot see. If my hearing is compromised by earplugs and external sounds i lose the ability to hear as well. Put away in darkness i have no idea of how long i have...
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F is for Flogging
i do not have any favourite flogger, but i do like being flogged by Mistress. She enjoys herself when She flogs and beats me and i enjoy that partly because She is enjoying herself, and partly because...
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Mistress has new ideas to control me
Mistress is always looking for new ways to control me and to show Her power over me. That is why She has me in my collar, ankle chains, butt plug, and chastity when i am at work, and a cock ring and...
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