F is for Flogging

i do not have any favourite flogger, but i do like being flogged by Mistress.

She enjoys herself when She flogs and beats me and i enjoy that partly because She is enjoying herself, and partly because it does feel good, even when it hurts a lot.

Beating, caning, paddling, spanking and flogging can all be seen as punishment, and have been used like that on me in the past. After i broke out of chastity and masturbated the sentence from Mistress was harsh. There was a sentence of 1000 strokes. The strokes were given over several visits, but the power of the strokes was hard, and each time my backside was left swollen and a little bruised, and my back felt sore afterwards. That was definite punishment for a serious misdemeanour, but most often flogging is just part of my life and the times i am allowed to attend Her.

It just feels good to be prepared for a beating, hooded in the heavy leather hood, strapped up tight so all i can do is breathe, or blindfolded and gagged to keep me quieter during the beating. Mistress is kind and allows me to use an inflatable butterfly gag, and although my arms are cuffed i can inflate and deflate the gag myself. This means that it does not make me gag but allows me to inflate it hard when the blows are coming fast and painfully so i can keep silent as Mistress wishes.

Strict Leather Spandex Black Hood with Padded Eye Blindfold [ST400]

Inflatable Butterfly Gag

She always takes time warming me up, usually with blows from her hand, and a brisk spanking. The backside feels as red as it probably is. Then She chooses from her range of favourites. All the time She is changing Her point of aim to cover the whole of my behind and the upper thighs. Sometimes She gets bored with this and starts on the soles of my feet. Some of the strokes are soft, no more than a soft caress, but the next one might be given with the full force of Her arm and i have no idea what is coming next.

Once warmed up She changes to the floggers, one which is soft, but heavy and lands with a loud and hard thud, sometimes so hard as to push the wind out of my chest, and the other which has smaller strands and bites. She alternates these, striking across the whole of the upper back, my thighs and the already smarting backside. She also has one which is rubber and although soft to touch can be very painful and one made of chain links with many thin chains which stings and She can also use it to flog my nipples.

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Rubber Tail Flogger [AC997]

Gunmetal Chain Flogger [AD725]

If the pain becomes too great i am allowed to beg for “mercy” This means that She stops hitting that part and changes implement and site of target. Not an end but just some other way to beat me. i know that i can trust Mistress and that She will hurt me with the beating, but never allow me to come to harm, or be permanently marked.

If i was in extremis, She would know, and i know She would stop if i really asked her to do so. So it is all safe and consensual and i love it.

Mistress does so enjoy beating me, and occasionally gets carried away with enthusiasm. i can tell from the increasing frequency and the pattern of the strokes that She is really engaged, and it is so good to have an opportunity for giving her this fun.

Sometimes the beating goes on for over an hour, and at the end i am left still trussed up, bent over the stool or the whipping bench, still in the dark as She walks away. i have no idea of when She is coming back, and whether the beating will resume. She could have just gone off for a cup of tea or to use the toilet.

The Punishing Bench [DD109]

By this stage i am lost in a haze of pain and pleasure, stinging from all the blows, with a backside that feels so swollen, and indeed when i am eventually released it often looks just like that, swollen and red, but rarely left with marks. i am finally allowed to kneel up and the hood is removed, and i find myself in the light again with Mistress there in front of me. i feel totally wrung out, pleasured, and fulfilled and i have had another good flogging from Mistress.

It is not always like that, for often the beating will be stopped so Mistress can have a time working on my nipples, twisting them, pulling them, using Her cruel sharp nails, or striking them and the front of my chest with a small whip as well.

Mistress occasionally decides to sit down upon me with all Her weight to hold me still, and then with my backside before Her the target is so close and available.

On a few occasions i have been due to fly abroad and Mistress will use the cane to beat and mark me, so i fly with a criss-cross of cane marks on my backside. This means the sitting for hours in the plane is more difficult, and i find myself squirming in my seat to get comfortable. This does have the effect of keeping me moving and is Mistress’s idea to prevent clots forming in the legs on long haul flights.

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Being flogged and beaten by Mistress is so exciting, so arousing, and so much fun. The pain is severe but never more than i can take, and She has trained me to be able to take more over several years. Now i look forward to a flogging when i see Mistress, and feel i have missed out if it is not possible.

She enjoys herself. i enjoy myself. Both of us are having fun. i treasure the floggings Mistress gives me, and at the time get so into it that all i want sometimes is more, and more, and more. Luckily there are times when i am able to spend 24 hours or longer, or occasionally a whole week with Mistress and then there is at least one daily flogging, and often more. It is now just a part of my submission, my slavery, and Her power over my body which She owns. It is Her totally owned buttocks and back She is scourging, they just happen to be attached to my body and are there for Her pleasure. No favourite flogger, but flogging by Mistress is so wonderful.

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