One of the most important things about being a slave is being put into silence. There are times Mistress allows her slave to speak and others when She does not want to hear his voice at all.
She can command him to be silent and enforce this taping up the slave’s mouth, use of a gag or even superglue to mute him.
But this is an external force to make him silent. More important is the internal silence that comes from being put in bondage and left alone. When i attend Mistress my mind has often been full of all sorts of other distractions, the world, work, etc, all clamouring to be heard. There are just so many thoughts, hopes and fears that it is difficult to become quiet.
But i need to become quiet so i can give my full attention to Mistress . i need to be able to be fully mindful of her, the verbal and non-verbal signals that She is giving.
i need to be mindful of HER needs and desires in order to serve her properly as a slave. i cannot do that if i am distracted. So Mistress helps me to go into a state of quiet.
When She secures me in bondage, hoods me, and puts me “down” i am conscious that She is taking control over all my functions. i am left helpless, secured, in the dark, and She goes away so there is nothing to see, little to hear, and no ability to move. i am locked away.
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This acts on me to quiet all the internal noise as well. It takes time but when i emerge into the light, blinking and with Mistress’s face before me it is all changed. i am ready to serve. There have been times when things have been bad when this has taken up to a couple of hours but it always works. When we have the opportunity for long periods together the external noise stills and i am left fully myself focussed and more mindful and i can concentrate on my purpose in life. i am the slave and property of Mistress . This is what i enter the silence to find is true. The silence within and without join together and i am able to live fully in the now.
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