I is for Isolation

Isolating a slave is a good way to show that Mistress is in control. The slave is put away out of the way and left. He may be hooded or in chains. He is put out of the way in a cupboard or cage, or secured in a body bag. Mistress has left him. He cannot see and may have had his ears plugged up as well, or be subjected to random noises or music to disorientate him.

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For many years i have known that i find it “relaxing” in some strange way to be put in bondage, helpless, and isolated with the aid of a hood or blindfold. i find that my mind is always full of thoughts, mainly from work and other stresses, and they chase each other around and around and keep me awake at night. At home i am often still thinking of the day and its work when i should be concentrating on other things.

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Even in sessions with Mistress the outside world intrudes and spoils things. So a period of isolation and “down time” is often necessary to get me in the “zone” for serious fun and enjoyment. This was particularly the first time i ever was able to be away from home for a whole night of bondage many years ago. i had driven far, and was so wound up that i could not relax so what should have been a wonderful time was marred by thoughts of work and other things. Mistress has found that there are times when at least a couple of hours of a session may be needed with me in isolation, and there have been times when i have needed much more.

Mistress says:
“When I first met you one of the biggest needs for you was to calm down with hood in isolation for as long as it took you to calm down, sometimes 1 hour, other times 24 hrs. This was imperative you had this isolation to leave your worries and enter a calm state and then I could build you up to be in the ZONE. The psychological effects were immense. Other times being hooded and flogged right away was an immediate release for you.”

She is so right. When i arrive to attend Mistress i go down on my knees and prostrate myself before Her. She knows me so well that She can gauge my state, and she always knows the stresses i am under at work and at home as well. She takes me, hoods me, and places me either in the cupboard which is locked to keep me in the dark, or in some other form of isolation and leaves me. On occasions She has had things to do so has left me alone in the house. i sit there, or lie there, either enclosed or naked apart from my bonds. i am helpless and unable to move around. My head is covered by a hood, or at the very least i am blindfolded. i enter a strange world where i know i cannot do anything, and i must wait. This allows me to start to unwind, and over the hour or hours the tensions leave me, and i start to “stop”.

The thoughts which run round and round in my mind gradually are replaced by a blank space. i can think of Mistress; i can wonder what is to come next, but i cannot think. This puts me into a frame of “living in the moment” and is such a rarity in the rest of my life. If the time is prolonged then i sometimes begin to get a little spooked by the silence. i really know i am safe, but i begin to worry that the whole afternoon has gone by and i am going to be late to leave and get home. Then i use Mistress’s mantra to calm me down and all returns to normal. By the time i am released from the silence and the isolation i am calm, and ready for whatever Mistress wishes to do. i am there for Her and time has no meaning. Indeed i often have no idea how long i have been kept in the isolation.

Occasionally i am able to get away for a night, or a few nights, as being “away on business or at a meeting” and then the isolation can be used to a much fuller extent. If i am really away at a meeting and away from both home and Mistress then Mistress requires me to sleep in a hood and chains, sometimes on the floor wrapped in a rubber sheet. This puts me into isolation until the alarm goes in the morning. i wake in chains and darkness and it takes me time to realise where i am and what i am doing. This is self imposed isolation, but on the orders of Mistress. If i am away from home but with Mistress She controls my isolation. There is a time when She decides it is time for me to be put down for the night. She secures me. She hoods me. She checks that all will be safe. She is always so careful to make sure i will be safe and cannot get into any difficulty. This does not mean that i will necessarily be comfortable. i may be in a bag, or wrapped in a rubber sheet, and will be in restraints so i cannot touch myself as well. We have a straight jacket which is very effective to keep me under control. But the greatest control is over my sight, as i am hooded or blindfolded, and so i stay for the rest of the night, until Mistress wishes me to be moved.

The evening before may have been intense, with bondage, flogging, hot wax, or whatever Mistress has decided, but the isolation puts me asleep in minutes. No worries, no thoughts of work, just silence and oblivion. Of course during the night i wake often in pain or discomfort from my position and inability to move, sometimes with cramps from keeping in the same position. i may awake with the feeling of my cock being crushed as the steel chastity does its work. i may be in nipple clamps so the nipples feel they are so swollen, and i am often required to wear a butt plug as well.

It is not these things that have the effect on me but the silence, the isolation that Mistress has used on me. i wake in bondage and to the pleasure of knowing that i am secured, and i am controlled and that Mistress is in control. The night may be long, but it is always so good. Eventually, when convenient to Her, Mistress releases me, and i am allowed to see the light and Her face. But it might not be so. She might have decided to keep me hooded and in the dark for the rest of the day.

When it is possible to be with Mistress for days at a time then isolation at night and whenever She sees it necessary during the day always pays dividends. It makes what comes next, whether a flogging, more bondage, or being allowed to see Her face and serve Her in any way even more special. To spend every night for a week in a hood at Her orders is better than a month of holiday for its effects on me.

On occasions we have travelled together to stay in dungeon chambers that can be hired by the night or day. then i am often transported in chains and hood in the back of the car. i have no idea of where i am going, or how long i stay there. Mistress may leave me and go shopping on the way. It is completely safe as there is always air and Mistress makes sure i do not get too hot or cold, but it is total isolation and it works its magic so i am ready, prepared, and eager for anything that comes after.

For me isolation is a powerful way in which Mistress prepares me for things She is going to do to me. She uses it to allow me to relax, and to get into a zone where i am ready to serve, and other things are blotted out. i can live in the moment. i can use all my energy to serve. i can be Hers totally. She controls it. She decides its duration. She decides what is done to me when in isolation. It is one of the most powerful things She does to me, and i do enjoy it so much, both at the time and in anticipation, and in thinking about it afterwards.

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