i take the term arse to apply to that part of the body which sticks out to the rear, skin covered mounds of muscle with a cleft in between leading down to the opening of the entry to the bowels. All parts of this should be under the control of the Mistress in every way.
The skin of the bottom is a favourite site for impact play with a variety of things used to hit the area. It is a perfect target for spanking with the hands, paddling, whipping and flogging, and the use of the cane. These can be applied either gently or with the full force of the Mistress’s arm, leaving the backside tingling, red, or bruised or even with the skin broken. The sensation of being hit in this area can vary from the pleasant to a feeling of severe pain. Sometimes the slave may have difficulty sitting down afterwards for hours or even days.
It is important that anything that is done is done with the consent of both the Mistress and the slave. The slave needs to consent to what is done to him, but equally the Mistress does not want to be pressured into applying more force than She feels happy to deliver with the risk of damage to the slave. It all requires communication, and if it becomes too intense the use of some “safe-word” to get the Mistress to stop or change target. Sometimes a plea for mercy can mean just a change in target not stopping the torment.
All these methods to stimulate or punish a slave depend on the slave keeping the target still, so sometimes it is best to keep the slave still with some form of restraint.
But the buttocks can be stimulated in so many other ways as well. A soft rubbing may feel good, and the Mistress can use Her nails to trace out patterns on the bare backside. The substance of the buttocks can be grabbed and squeezed, and the stimulus can vary from mild to severe. It is one of the best sites to stimulate, for the slave never knows what is coming next, particularly if he has been blindfolded or hooded. Ice can be applied or heating cream rubbed in or wax dripped onto the skin to stimulate further.
All of these are ways in which a Mistress can stimulate and have fun with a slave’s buttocks. But the slave may also be expected to keep his backside in the state Mistress expects and to exercise so his buttocks are not flabby or soft but firm and full of muscle. Mistress may set the slave exercises to do every day to improve his muscle tone and the texture of the buttocks that belong to her. She may also wish to make the slave wear clothing to compress the buttocks so he has a feeling of being crushed at all times. This will remind him that he is Her slave. She may also want the area waxed to remove all hair.
Between the mounds of the buttocks lies the cleft leading to the anus. Slaves need to keep this clean and may be expected to have the area waxed to remove all hairs. This is the entrance to the anus area so it must be kept clean and ready for Mistress and as She wishes it presented.
The anus is the opening into the bowels, and this is where the Mistress can penetrate deep into Her slave. There are always risks to any anal activity, of bleeding, of infection and of damage that could leave the slave incontinent. So there must always be care. This is a total invasion of the private parts, and to allow your Mistress access here is to allow Her total power over you as a slave. The first time a slave is penetrated here he knows he is now there to be used as the plaything of Mistress and She shows Her power over him by taking control of this area.
In sessions there are so many things that can be inserted to give the slave pleasure or torment and for the Mistress to enjoy using. There are so many toys that it is difficult to know where to begin. It is important to use items that will not slip inside and be stuck there so they need to have a base to prevent this if they are going to be left in place. There are butt plugs, dildos and strap on devices of all shapes and sizes and the slave must expect to be tried with a variety of such items to find out which ones work on him and which ones the Mistress enjoys the most and which give the Mistress the greatest pleasure when She uses them.
Some have an external hook which can be attached to a bondage harness or to somewhere to secure a slave in the position the Mistress desires.
Freshly peeled ginger inserted inside will irritate and cause discomfort and this is called figging. See http://alifeinthedayofaslave.com/f-is-for-figging/.
Out of sessions and out in the world there is no reason why a slave should be free from Mistress’s ministrations. he can be expected to wear a butt plug under his clothes, there for hours or longer at a time. he can have a plug which has electrical contacts on it inserted and can be stimulated with one of the many electro stimulation devices. These can be directly connected with wires to the controller, held by the Mistress or controlled from a remote control device. Electro-stimulation of the anus is possible from the mild like a quiet buzzing effect to the most severe where the slave is shocked so severely that he will fall to the ground with the pain.
It can be fun for Mistress to control a slave with the electrics with the controller in Her hand and the wires under the table out in a restaurant, or to use a remote controller to shock him as he is walking in public. There are even systems which allow remote control by computer from anywhere on the planet and allows a Mistress to keep Her slave under control wherever she may be. There are just so many things that a Mistress can do with Her slave and with his anus. One recent way in which my Mistress has taken even greater control is with the use of a butt plug worn overnight in bed. When i wake in the night it is there, and i feel filled up inside. It cannot come out. If She uses the electrical butt plug She has a long lead which can go from me to anywhere else in the house and so i can find myself woken with harsh shocks at any time.
The most major effect on me as slave of all of these invasions and toys is that it gives me the opportunity to show my submission to Mistress and to submit to whatever She wants to do. More recently i have discovered that i like it as well, especially the wearing of a butt plug for long periods when at work. Whatever is done it all builds on the total control that Mistress has over my body. It is “Her body” to use and abuse as She wants, and “Her buttocks and anus” to use for Her fun and games. But i do enjoy it all so much as well.
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